How to Handle Getting Rejected at Auditions

It has been said that each people would have their 15-minutes of fame by appearing in television in their lifetime. This may sound true because as of late, there are numerous opportunities for people to get themselves on TV. Now, it is not limited to actors, singers, performers, hosts, or models, the small screen has evolved throughout the years and has presented more opportunities for “ordinary people” to get their shot at becoming a “TV personality”.

Much of this can be attributed to the reality shows in which the stars are ordinary people who become celebrities in the end. Hence, it lures a lot of people to try out for such shows because not only are they in it for the prize but also for the temporary fame that comes along with it, and for those more fortunate ones, a long-term popularity. You do not have to be star-material with awesome vocal pipes or acting prowess. You just have to be you. This is the reason why hordes of people line up at audition venues, people from all walks of life taking a chance at getting picked.

But what happens when you don’t get through? There are as much number of people getting rejected than those who sail on through the next round. There are people who are good sports while some take it the wrong way. So what do you do if you are one of those who wants to get picked so bad and gets rejected?

There are several things you can do actually. You can either run amuck and smash things, punch the screening committee, or you can take it all in stride and cry yourself to sleep.

Here are some suggestions on to help someone get over the feeling of rejection:

• Stand Proud

  If you get past the first stage, and got rejected on the next level, be proud of you accomplishment. Out of thousands who lined up, it is already a feat to get selected at the first phase. At least you know that you have what it takes to make it. You can always try out again and you know that you already have an edge.

• Keep Your Composure

  It is very important that you keep your “face”. Do not let your face show especially to the screening committee and the other auditionees disappointment after hearing the bad news to keep yourself from being embarrassed. Just act cool in front of the others. Nothing is more embarrassing than being a bad sport. You can always cry yourself when you get home.

• Smile When You Walk

  Smile when you walk out of that venue. Never let anyone see you looking like a dumped boyfriend or girlfriend. Nothing sucks more than having people (strangers especially) giving you the it’s-okay-everything’s-gonna-be-alright speech. Try your best to keep your face straight at least until after you get out of that door.

• Act Natural

  There are some shows that put a camera directly in your face once you get out of that door. When this happens, try to be as natural as possible. Do not look too frustrated or too cool about it because people who are watching will detect the “fakeness”. They will understand your frustration but do not overdo it and look phony.

• Get Support

  You can rant to your friends and loved ones. They are there to give you support and make you feel better about the situation.

• Don’t Blame Yourself

   It is normal that people get rejected at certain auditions, it maybe because you are not the right person for that specific show or you need more time to improve yourself to be more suitable next time. You have to know that it is not your fault you didn’t get selected. There are specific qualifications that screening committees are looking for which you may not possess.

• Be Determined

   You can always try out for other shows if you really are determined. Just make sure that the qualities and skills needed suit you, that way you have a better shot at getting picked.

• Improve Yourself

  Work on getting more fit or knowledgeable at the skills required for the show that you want to join. There is always room for improvement and the longer you get to prepare yourself equates to a better shot at getting selected the next time you decide to audition again.

• Learn From It

  Whether you get picked the first level or on the second or third, it is always an experience that you can learn from. Remember there is a reason for everything. Not getting selected doesn’t mean that you are less of a person, it just might be not the right time or opportunity for you. Always have faith that something better is always in store for you.